I was especially bummed because this was my last week in Knoxville for awhile. I am moving to Nashville for the month of july for an internship, and I was hoping to get tons of saddle time in.
On the bright side, the BM and I discussed it, and figured out a training plan for Dee in July.
Understandably, the BM didn't want to ride Dee herself. I don't blame her at all. It's been a slow road getting Dee back into manageable riding horse mode since her nearly-year-long vacation in NY. I've lacked the ability to be consistent with her, and while she has been quite good lately, and while I don't think of her as a threat under saddle, I can see where other people might not agree. She has an opinion about just about everything, and she is definitely the type to test the waters... if she can intimidate, she is happy to go down that road. Heck, there have been days (not recently, but in fall and winter) when she comes out with NO intentions of doing anything good, and I can tell within 5 seconds of picking the reins up that nothing good will happen if I try to really ride, so she is made to walk in the contact for awhile, and then goes on the lunge. But, like I said, lately that hasn't been the case. Lately, she comes out willing to work, or at least willing to tolerate me for 30 minutes, if she's not in a great mood. That said, canter transitions are still pretty explosive, and if she's feeling lazy, she will pitch a fit IN the canter to try to convince you to let her go back to trot... if it doesn't work she usually just quits being stupid and gets to work, but it takes being willing to just ignore the bad behavior, kick on, and reward the good behavior.
Anyway, that was a long ramble to say I totally understand being unwilling to get on the she-beast. She is not for everyone, and I LIKE when someone is willing to look at her and say "you know what? I'm not the right fit for her, and I think we would be a bad combination." That way, everyone stays happy. But, being the AWESOME barn manager and horsewoman that she is, she contacted a former student of hers that enjoys riding temperamental mares to see if she would be interested in the gig. Well, she is, so we arranged for the student to ride Dee twice a week, and BM to do ground work (lunging, etc) once a week. I think it will work out perfectly. This way, Dee doesn't get a month of vacation time (the LAST thing that lazy mare needs). Plus, I will have to be back in Knoxville for law journal stuff midway through July, so I'm hoping to schedule a lesson on the beastie and enjoy her for the weekend (hopefully my head will be completely healed, by then!). Silver linings, I suppose.
On an un-horse related note, I got this postcard from my mother, who is currently on a cruise of Europe:
"Don't get hurt anymore!" Thanks, mom, I'll try not to! |